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Oh friend, this grief journey is winding and complex. Such an honor and a privilege to guide the beloved and vulnerable through the most intense stage of life, but man is it ever a bitch to overcome. Those final day memories are nothing short of brutal; you just have to be at your strongest when they’re at their weakest.

With my kitty, I was just so relieved we were able to do the euthanasia at home. It was my final wish for him. He got to pass in his home. I know that’s not always possible for all pets, but I hope it can be done, if and when time and resources allow. I still think about him and miss him every day, two years on. I dream about him when I’m having some of my worst days. As the Jews say, his memory IS a blessing. 💜

Beautiful work here. You’ve got me smiling and crying; the mark of masterful journalism. Bowie and Dax are so lucky to have you. I hope it’s still really far off, but when it comes, you’re the right person to be there when they need you the most.

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Thank you for the heartfelt comment. It is such a blessing to have an animal love you and to love it in return. I'm so happy you and Mikey had each other.

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“Well, except that one time Bowie ate 24 ibuprofen tablets.” 😭

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